I see far too many hard working women piling more stress on top of their already stressful days, beating themselves up for how much they weigh and what they think that means without seeing the big picture or understanding how variable your “weight” alone actually is.
Because if you could sculpt your body the way Meg did, would it really matter how much you “weighed” as a result? Isn’t it more effective to look at your body composition and what’s going on with the body tissue we’re supporting?
My best advice is to stop basing your value and your progress on your scale, start taking some progress pictures or measurements and/or invest in body composition measurements (smart scales, DXA scan, BodPod, etc).
To accomplish fat loss/muscle gain, focus on the big picture of what you surround your workouts with (sleep, nutrition, stress management) and consider your hormone status, both with regular cycle tracking and also regular check ins with your doctor, so you can be assured of having normal levels of estrogen, progesterone and testosterone for where you are in your life.
These hormones, along with your thyroid and adrenal hormones all play a big role in how your body is able to lose fat and build muscle.
Your sex hormone levels start to change with perimenopause and of course with menopause, and they will impact your ability to build muscle and burn fat, requiring more specific strategies which I’ve written several articles about on my blog.
Keep tabs on your daily energy levels and sleep balance which are important health metrics as well and can show us if we are under stress and need to spend some time caring for ourselves, or working with a health care practitioner.
Finally, remember your overall happiness is one of the most important metrics you have in your health.
Don’t forget to put all this pursuit of progress into perspective and so you can be happy now, not just happy “when you lose 10 lbs” or whatever the case may be.
Check out my latest podcast for more info on this topic or talk about it with me in our private group chats in Rock Your Life!
Stay flawsome!
-Betty Rocker